Sunday, 6 November 2011

Frustration

I'm annoyed.
Apart from my usual complaint of boys being stupid. I have friends who are stupid.
Let's say that you're dating someone and you like them enough to consider having a relationship with them.
You've been on dinner/movie dates and they've stayed over.
That's called 'dating' right?
So if you're naive like me, you'd sorta thing 'yeh this guy is interested in me'
You probably wouldn't be thinking 'this guy is fucking other guys whilst also seeing me'
But.
Sad face.
It's true.
He's fucking half the town whilst dating you.
Why?
Because you haven't had the exclusive dating chat have you?

I personally don't understand dating multiple guys at a time. I like to focus on just one, do it proper and then move on. I suppose it's different if you're just fuck buds but I think when you give someone the impression that you're dating, you should be very clear about your intentions to either date/fuck other people in the meantime. (even if you're a nice guy, it shouldn't be assumed)
So much unnecessary angst.
...my friend wonders why guys get shirty with him...

1 slaps:

S said...

Exact same thing just happened to me.

Sadly, I've come to learn to never assume anything about anything.